Good manners are a way of showing other people we have respect for them. It is the know how (Savoir Faire) to ensure that the people around us are as comfortable as possible so collectively we can celebrate the graciousness of living.
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Pollyanna Revisited - Playing the Glad Game
This year is the 100 year anniversary of the book Pollyanna. To call someone a Pollyanna in this day and time is to label them a naive optimist. If you read the story, Pollyanna was nothing of the like. An orphan living with a cold and distant aunt, Pollyanna was an intuitive child who learned the art of gratitude through the "Glad Game", a game her father taught her before he died. She suffered alot of loss in her young life so she was not immune to pain, but through finding reasons to be glad she was able to keep gloom at bay and teach by example the townspeople that their lives were filled with more blessings than they realized. She fell short and succumbed to human weakness in her ability to always be glad, but more times than not she prevailed. It was a deliberate choice to be glad and not trust her feelings.
I suggest we all recapture our childlike hearts and play the glad game every day. It is simply declaring the things big or small that make you grateful. It could be a promotion at work, a cup of tea, a warm sunny day, just be glad! We all have something to be glad for. I suggest we also openly express gratitude to others for what they have contributed to our lives. Did you know that according to Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, one of reasons Rabbis, Ministers, Pastors, etc. experience burnout because of the lack of gratitude from those they serve. The daily practice of gratitude is not just for us, but for others.
What are you glad for?
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I'm glad that there are awesome women like Demita who bring joy and happiness into my life. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. ;-)
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