Friday, January 20, 2012

Profiles In Manners and Public Displays of Social Graces


Some may be surprised at my selection of Marylin Monroe, but I chose her because despite the drama that surrounded her and her unpredictable behavior, she  at times demonstrated the art of gratitude. One gentleman she was working with on a movie she had been keeping late to assist her to the annoyance of his wife. She sent a dozen roses to his wife with a card apologizing for keeping him late but also thanking her for letting her borrow him to complete the project. When her needs infringed on the priorities of others, I have read the accounts of those who worked with her that  she at times expressed gratitude in different ways from flowers, to gifts, to thank you notes.

Below is a thank you note she sent  expressing her gratitude for a bottle of Champagne.



One does not always have to have a perfect life to display moments of good social graces, in fact, our imperfections can at times endear us to people more as Marilyn at times demonstrated.

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