Thursday, March 8, 2012

Celebrities with Good Manners DO Exist! The National League of Junior Cotillions says so!





The National League of Junior Cotillions (NLJC) has selected its “Ten Best Mannered People,” individuals it considers “outstanding role models of good manners.” (Lord knows we need them!)


The top 10 well mannered celebrities of 2011 are as follows:


1. Kate Middleton,  The Duchess of Cambridge – “for the poise and dignity with which she conducts herself in the public spotlight.” and “the exemplary manner in which she has conducted herself, before and after her marriage to Prince William of Great Britain,” explains NLJC national director Elizabeth Anne Winters.

2. Justin Bieber – “for consistently showing courtesy to his fans.”

3. Paula Abdul – “for her encouragement to aspiring entertainers.”

4. Aaron Rogers – “for being a positive example for young athletes.”

5. Taylor Swift – “for inspiring young people with her music and her manners.”

6. George Stephanopoulos – “for extending warmth and kindness to Good Morning America guests.”

7. Jackie Evancho – “for demonstrating humility and politeness as a young performer.”

8. Erin Burnett – “for the respect she shows others as a network host.”

9. Emma Watson – “for the kindness extended to her Harry Potter fans.”

10. Tim Tebow – “for displaying good sportsmanship on and off the field.”


I look forward to finding out who makes the list for 2012 and ill behaved reality show faux-lebrities need not apply!

For Crying Out Loud



Fine manners need the support of fine manners in others.
Ralph Waldo Emerson 


Thursday, March 1, 2012

Please, Say thank you Part 2- "THANK YOU" NOTES


How to write  a "Thank You" note.

Step 1 — Greeting
Step 2 — Express your gratitude for the gift, invitation, job interview, etc.
Step 3 — Elaborate (if you say something specific about the act or gift, your sentiments are much more heart felt)
Step 4 — Compliment and look ahead (“I enjoyed your company for lunch and you looked wonderful! I can’t wait to start reading this book you gave me.”)
Step 5 — Restate your gratitude (a simple,  “thank you or thanks again” is sufficient)
Step 6 — Close and give your regards (love, sincerely, warm regards, etc.)

Friday, February 17, 2012

******ANNOUNCEMENT******* MANNERS COURSE IN ONTARIO, CA STARTING Feb 5th 2012 ******SECOND COURSE ADDED*******

Miss Edna has been informed by Maura Graber that a new course has been added on Sundays  and there is still time to enroll. Click on "Upcoming Classes" above for more details.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

For Crying Out Loud



Gratitude is the most exquisite form of courtesy.
-Jacques Maritan

Friday, January 20, 2012

Profiles In Manners and Public Displays of Social Graces


Some may be surprised at my selection of Marylin Monroe, but I chose her because despite the drama that surrounded her and her unpredictable behavior, she  at times demonstrated the art of gratitude. One gentleman she was working with on a movie she had been keeping late to assist her to the annoyance of his wife. She sent a dozen roses to his wife with a card apologizing for keeping him late but also thanking her for letting her borrow him to complete the project. When her needs infringed on the priorities of others, I have read the accounts of those who worked with her that  she at times expressed gratitude in different ways from flowers, to gifts, to thank you notes.

Below is a thank you note she sent  expressing her gratitude for a bottle of Champagne.



One does not always have to have a perfect life to display moments of good social graces, in fact, our imperfections can at times endear us to people more as Marilyn at times demonstrated.